I’m Olivia, a professional Therapist dedicated to helping Couples and Individuals navigate the complexities of relationships
I’m Olivia, a professional Therapist dedicated to helping Couples and Individuals navigate the complexities of relationships
Hi, it's good to have you here. Please take a look around this website and explore what is on offer for Individual Therapy, Couples Therapy and Counselling for fellow Therapists & Trainees.
If you have any questions, please get in touch for a Consultation.
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"We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship." — Harville Hendrix
Anxiety, nervousness, fear, panic attacks.
Anger-management, be that through trauma, abuse or an unknown troubling reaction in times of stress.
Grief and loss: of loved ones, friendships, a career, your health or a life you feel you no longer have.
Depression, low mood, feeling without hope or motivation.
Divorce, couple's conflicts, communication, infidelity, loss.
Low Self-Esteem, self-worth or a lack of identity.
Relationships; Couples Therapy, relationship anxiety, attachment, avoidance.
Problematic coping mechanism such as excessive drinking and over-eating.
Brief therapy to process dilemmas, relationships, work & career, family issues and life's struggles.
Trauma, abuse and domestic violence.
Therapy for Counsellors & Psychotherapists (Professionals & Students)
I have a special interest and understanding of life transitions and how to support people to move through times of change in a connecting, healing and empowering way.
These transitions include, amongst others; Parenthood. Menopause and Life Stages. Empty Nest. Loss & Grief. Betrayal.
07496936359
Based in Margate, Kent
Verified by Psychology Today
Relationships are intricate arenas where two people come together with their unique expectations, backgrounds, communication styles, and relationship histories. At times, these differences can lead to misunderstandings, conflict, or feelings of disconnection.
Some of us may find ourselves prone to anxiety in relationships, constantly seeking reassurance or feeling overwhelmed by the emotional dynamics. Others may lean toward avoidance, pulling back when intimacy or conflict arises, which can also create distance and frustration. These patterns are more common than you might think, and with the right support, they can be worked through.
My Approach
As a therapist, I provide an open, curious and warm space where you and your partner can explore your relationship concerns without fear of judgement or opinion, just open and empathic exploration.
I draw on a variety of therapeutic approaches, using proven methods to help you make sense of yourself and each other.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) looks at disrupted emotional connections that can lead to disconnection, conflict or mis- communication, in order that trust and intimate connection can be restored.
Transactional Analysis explores how we move between different states of being and brings awareness to how reactive communication, such as criticism, withholding affection or angry outbursts, can play out in our relationships.
Attachment Theory explores how we sought safety and tried to get our needs met in our formative years, as these needs (and ways of getting those needs met) persist throughout our lives.
Ultimately, the journey of couples therapy is about raising awareness and giving context to the sometimes dysfunctional way we strive to be loved, understood, accepted and cherished. The beauty of this process goes beyond healthier intimate relationships, into a better relationship with ourselves and others in our lives.
Online therapy
Online therapy is a great option for couples who would like to cut out travel and attend therapy sessions from a private space at home or work. There is the added benefit of being able to attend therapy from different locations if ever need be.
Sessions are held over Zoom video call, which is a safe and reliable platform. I have undergone extensive extra training to ensure that online therapy is every bit as vibrant, interactive and effective as in-person sessions
The relationship that we build is the foundation of the work that we will do together and as such, finding a therapist that you feel comfortable with - that is the right 'fit’, is essential. I want all of my Clients to have that experience and that is why I invite you to a have an initial get together to get a feel for what our sessions would be like. I have a wonderful network of fellow Counsellors that I can refer you to if you decide that I am not the right Counsellor for you.
Do get in touch and book your consultation by emailing me at: ooven5575@gmail.com
Training & Experience
I am a member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and abide by their code of ethics.
I hold a Level 4 Diploma in Integrative Therapeutic Counselling as well as certificates, levels 2 & 3, Counselling Skills and Studies. I train on an ongoing basis to continually inform and update my practice. Further trainings include:
Internal Family Systems
Attachment/Inner Child Work
Emotions Focussed Therapy
Couples Therapy
Single Session/Brief Therapy
Working with relational Trauma.
ADHD in Adulthood
Anxiety and OCD
British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy- Certificate of Proficiency
Working with complex grief
Online Therapy
Counselling Online
Integrating artwork in Counselling
Trauma and Shame
2020 - Learn to Love Online Therapy - 12-week Mastery in Online Practice
Previously, and alongside my Private Practice, I worked for five years counselling adult clients for a local counselling charity.
I also trained with Place2Be in London, a children’s mental health charity who work with pupils, families and staff in UK schools and worked with them in Kent as Volunteer Counsellor.
As part of my Diploma training, I was required to have 30+ hours of personal therapy - I think it's important to mention this as I believe it to be of great importance in understanding the therapeutic process and coming to know myself better.
Please contact me with any questions.
Mon | 09:30 – 15:00 | |
Tue | 09:30 – 15:00 | |
Wed | 09:30 – 15:00 | |
Thu | 09:30 – 15:00 | |
Fri | 09:00 – 13:00 | |
Sat | 10:00 – 12:00 | |
Sun | 10:00 – 12:00 |
There may some additional slots available - please contact me for more details.
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